All of us can find ourselves in the position where we have become offended by something someone has said or done. Our position in the body of Christ, our calling, and our anointing does not exempt us from this. In Luke 17:1 Jesus said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come!
Today we are re-examining how Jesus encourages believers to address conflicts promptly, seek peace, and forgive others, rather than allowing offenses to fester and create divisions.
Ice breaker: Read Mat 16:13-15. why did Jesus need a feedback on the comments of people and His disciples?
What can offenses do in and to your life? Proverbs 18:19
Offenses can do a lot of damage to your life. When you are offended, that offense can do more than just occupy and harass your mind. That offense can build up a wall in your heart that will not be easily demolished. That offense can destroy relationships and turn friends into enemies. It will be the soil from which unforgiveness sprouts and thereby the instrument that hinders our prayers.
What should you when the words or actions your Brethren (your loved one) Offenses you? Mat 18:15-17
- Notice that it is the offended and not the offender that Jesus calls upon to make the first move in attempting to resolve the matter. Why is this?
- So then, having an uncomfortable conversation now, at the time of the offense, will be much easier than the work that will be required later to bring down the walls of anger, bitterness, and resentment that have been erected in our heart and spirit.
What should you when realize that your words or actions offended your Brethren (your loved one) ? Mat 5:23-26
- Why should you go to the offended when you realize you had offended them?
- Why did Jesus advice that you agree with your adversary quickly? Should you agree even when you believe you have not done anything wrong?
When two children of God come together after an offense, it is a Divine Encounter. The will simultaneously recognize each other’s worth in the eyes of God. They both will seek to restore the value that was damaged by the offense.
Action Plan: Read Eph 4:26-32
